
So I’m now at the age where everybody and their mother is getting married. Most of my friends are in long term relationships and I only have a handful of single friends. As someone who has not been single for quite some time, I sometimes try to set my single friends up. I mean, I know it definitely can’t be easy seeing your non-single friends couple off, tying the knot, etc. but I’m not sure if my wanting to see my friends in happy relationships is helping or just pouring salt over the wound.
There are a few friends that I’ve given up on trying to set up and that’s mostly due to their own admitted pickiness. Now, I wonder, is there anything wrong with that? I mean, you’re hopefully spending the rest of your life with this person. Why not make sure they are compatible in the ways that you want? Or does it matter more whether or not their meet your criteria in looks, personality traits or values? Should you settle? There’s this moment in the movie “Up in the Air” where the 23-year-old girl talks about her perfect man – right down to the Jeep Grand Cherokee he drives while the older 40-something woman says that she wants a “nice smile” and maybe “some hair.” Maybe time allows you to sift through what’s really important to you, but only time will tell.









